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12 Stupid Things That Mess Up Recovery

Allen Berger · 2008
88/100
👍 Worth It

Dr. Allen Berger strips away the self-flattering narratives that can quietly undermine sobriety and names twelve of them plainly — confusing self-concern with selfishness, skipping amends, using the program as a perfectionism project, expecting sobriety alone to fix your relationships. Published by Hazelden and reviewed favorably by Spirituality & Practice, the book is widely used as a supplement to 12-step work, and its compatibility with AA and NA principles is genuine without being preachy. The no-jargon, direct tone is the book's greatest strength: it is hard to hide behind vague language when every chapter names a specific trap. Readers looking for explicitly Christian recovery framing will want a companion resource, and the brevity means this is a primer that opens doors rather than a comprehensive therapeutic guide. A very useful one for the right reader.

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